There is a famous metaphor, of lobsters, used by Israeli-American Hasidic rabbi and psychiatrist, Dr. Abraham Twerski, that captures the core of personal development. The story is as follows: when lobsters outgrow their shell, they cannot simply and automatically adopt a new shell like other crustaceans. Instead, they have to search for a rock crevice or somewhere to hide under where they are completely vulnerable and soft, and then sit and wait for their new shell to grow. But, it is only when they feel uncomfortable that they are able to grow. In their most vulnerable state, and weakest form, they are forced to expand in order to feel protected again with a new shell. Personal development for humans goes through the same process. We often know where we need to develop, but instead of breaking out of our shells and face vulnerability, we choose to stay in our old shells. We choose to avoid, to stay in our comfort, and to remain ignorant of our flaws and gaps. The idea of having a life coach, a therapist, or a personal development to help guide you throughout life was not…
Why This Egyptian Life Coach Wants to Emphasize Personal Development in Our Culture
January 17, 2022
